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Post by SimbasMate on Jan 5, 2010 17:04:27 GMT -5
I don't mean to take my problems here, but I must vent and get it off my chest. Well anyways, as the title says, that is all my mother ever does, is yell her head out at us. It's ever since she got her boyfriend in my opinion. She was a single mom for a while, and she found this guy a little while later. So now, here we are with this new "love" in her life, and basically she is never home anymore. Now to the point, when she is home all she does is waste her breath screaming at my siblings and I. She complains on how we just do nothing, sit around, and she ends up doing all the chores. Tbh, I AM lazy, but I never let it get the best of me. My brother Andrew doesn't do a thing! He just sits around on his butt, watching TV shows. My older sister and I do the work. But when my mom comes home from her boyfriend's she just yells at us how "nothing" gets done. So when she screams at us, Andrew screws it up for all of us, because he makes faces and mocks my mother... he is a total snob. I feel like I want to smack him on his face and tell him what he does is messing everything up, and how he needs to do something.
I feel like it's all my fault though... my mom yells at me alot because I am always up in my room.. and I "complain"about school. I have major stress issues, and her yelling at me doesn't help any. And she knows this too... although she does it anyway... what am I supposed to do? She has threatened to give us all up so she can go live with her boyfriend... should I really pack my bags? Or should I stay.. I need opinons..
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Post by Sillydog The Great on Jan 5, 2010 17:17:37 GMT -5
Ugh my mother is exactly the same, all she does is yell at me, except my mother is just plain insane. It's not fun when mom's are constantly yelling, I know.
My advice though is that you stay put for now. I know it might be something you may not want to do but think of it this way. If you leave where will you go? How could you afford to live? At least at your home you have a roof over your head and food. Stay strong until you actually do have another place where you can live. Try to drone it out, that's what I do. When my mom yells I zone out into my own world until I notice her mouth is done moving.
Also have you tried to talk to her about the boyfriend issue? Her job first and foremost is to be a mother to you all, not worry about her own pleasure. In a mother's life, children always come first.
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Post by SimbasMate on Jan 5, 2010 17:42:10 GMT -5
Ugh my mother is exactly the same, all she does is yell at me, except my mother is just plain insane. It's not fun when mom's are constantly yelling, I know. My advice though is that you stay put for now. I know it might be something you may not want to do but think of it this way. If you leave where will you go? How could you afford to live? At least at your home you have a roof over your head and food. Stay strong until you actually do have another place where you can live. Try to drone it out, that's what I do. When my mom yells I zone out into my own world until I notice her mouth is done moving. Also have you tried to talk to her about the boyfriend issue? Her job first and foremost is to be a mother to you all, not worry about her own pleasure. In a mother's life, children always come first. Thanks for the advice. ^^ I feel better. :3 And yes I told her about the BF situation... but she never listens.. ¬¬
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Post by Sillydog The Great on Jan 5, 2010 17:44:56 GMT -5
Ugh my mother is exactly the same, all she does is yell at me, except my mother is just plain insane. It's not fun when mom's are constantly yelling, I know. My advice though is that you stay put for now. I know it might be something you may not want to do but think of it this way. If you leave where will you go? How could you afford to live? At least at your home you have a roof over your head and food. Stay strong until you actually do have another place where you can live. Try to drone it out, that's what I do. When my mom yells I zone out into my own world until I notice her mouth is done moving. Also have you tried to talk to her about the boyfriend issue? Her job first and foremost is to be a mother to you all, not worry about her own pleasure. In a mother's life, children always come first. Thanks for the advice. ^^ I feel better. :3 And yes I told her about the BF situation... but she never listens.. ¬¬ Haha, mine doesn't either. Everything is my fault =P
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Post by kopafan130 on Jan 10, 2010 2:59:04 GMT -5
SM: just stay for just now^^.Try to talk to her about how you feel.
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